This owns. (Taken with instagram)
My old boss tried to use the restroom argument with me once. For people who try to use this as another example of why trans* people create all of the problems of the world, it can really be THIS simple.
Simple as that.
The only reason people think accommodating non-binary folks is difficult is because their mindset is stuck in the binary.
Fuck gender binary-enforcing website registrations.
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Reblogged because of d’aww.
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The most important lesson I’ve learned from Friendship is Magic is that your gender doesn’t dictate the way you have to be. You don’t have to consistently conform to one side of the gender binary, and because you may have one “feminine” characteristic doesn’t mean you don’t have other “masculine”…
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Okay, okay, I was born female and I know I'm definitely pansexual. But I do not like to do anything feminine. In fact, I loathe it when my mother forces me to dress feminine for special occasions and such. I don't even care what gender people call me (although since childhood, I've always wanted to be a boy). I didn't think I was transgender or genderfluid or whatever it really is called, but I think I am. Does it sound like I am?
((First off, transgender, genderqueer and genderfluid are different things. Transgender means your true gender is the opposite of your birth-assigned sex. Genderqueer means your gender identity and/or expression does not align with typical ideas of your sex. Genderfluid is a specific type of genderqueerness in which your gender identity and expression vary. Now, if your gender expression does not align with typical ideas of femininity but you feel like a girl, you’re gender non-conforming or genderqueer. If your gender identity as well is not feminine or you don’t feel like a girl, you’re definitely genderqueer. If you still absolutely want to be a boy and feel your true identity is as a man, you’re trans.))
I am female, but sometimes I get the desire to present myself in a masculine fashion, though probably more of the time I present myself in a feminine fashion. (Probably about 70% of the time?) Also I don't care about what pronouns people use for me. Is this super abnormal? No one else I talk to really feels this way, so I don't know...
((It’s completely normal, you actually sound a lot like me! You’re genderqueer, specifically genderfluid—your gender expression is fluid. Now, mine is a little different, I’m a feminine straight boy in a woman’s body. I really do prefer male pronouns even though I present myself usually in a feminine way. Remember people—gender expression and gender identity are separate.))
Do you think that transgender people's legal gender should be?
((They should make the process of changing your legal gender much easier, as well as allow others than “male” and “female”. Actually, come to think of it, why do you need a “legal gender” anyway?))
anti-feminist anon must be quite misinformed, because I'm a guy (born with penis and all), and I consider myself a feminist, and have gotten along quite well with many feminists of all genders, except for one anti-trans* feminist, but fuck those people.
((Yo anon, this guy. Listen to his words, for he is a boss.))
I have a giant problem. I am a gay guy who would really like to be intersex and I have been wearing dresses and wanting to be a girl since I was 5. The problem is I stand 6 foot 5 inches have huge shoulder, feet and hands. I have very prominent jaw and am very masculine looking. I feel that if I do try to get a sex change or go full drag I would just look silly, but on the other hand I will never feel fulfilled. The only time I feel happy is when I sleep because I always dream I'm a girl.
((I have almost the same problem. I’m 4’ 10”, curvy and extremely feminine looking. I think I might be trans (which is what you’re trying to say—intersex means born with ambiguous genitals, transgender means someone’s gender is not the same as the sex they were born as). I really don’t know what to tell you. Since you’re that unhappy, I think you should think about transition. You’d be amazed what hormones can do to change your appearance. It won’t change your height like it wouldn’t change mine, but I think it’s easier to get away with being a tall girl than a short guy. Go to a counselor and talk it out. It’s usually recommended that people have at least a year of counseling before they transition.))
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